Dating No Strings

After coming out of a failed marriage I now want the freedom to come and go as I please. I don't want to worry about doing the washing up and keeping the house clean if I don't want to, not that I am a messy person. If I do not want to make the bed properly in the morning I don't. If I need laundry I can do the washing myself, I can cook and I can do anything I need for myself so I don't need a woman around the house to keep it in order. I do however yearn for a companion from time to time. Maybe someone I even care for and who I respect but not someone who is going to start invading my space. NSA means we can see each other once a week or 2-3 times a week and it means we are also free to see and meet other people. Maybe one day in the future one of my fuck buddies will become something more serious but for now no strings dating is perfect for me.

The only problem I have had with agreeing to no strings attached sex is that on more than one occasion the sex has been crap. I have met some decent guys but I have also met a few where they go into it with the thought that as I am not his girlfriend he has no intention of trying to impress me so he puts no effort in, more a wham bam thank you mam type of encounter. I have also found that us women need to put more pictures up into our profiles to attract any interest, I guess the guys automatically assume because a woman joins a no strings dating site she must be ugly or have two heads. Guys may be looking for no strings attached because they enjoy the pure uncomplicated sexual satisfaction, but guess what, so do us women. Guys I consider myself a decent catch, I have many asking to meet me again but please, start putting an effort in between the sheets to impress me or I won't be your no strings fuck buddy, I will be your never happening again one night stand.

I have been in a long term relationship and it felt like we were trapped, it was like being handcuffed together. Every moment of every day we were with each other and there was no freedom, I cannot stand feeling trapped so it ended NSA for the foreseeable future!!

A little more respect please guys, I am not your girlfriend so when we meet and enjoy NSA sex respect my opinion. If we have had great sex it doesn't mean an invitation to stay over the night and it definitely doesn't mean you are free to pop over unexpected with a late night call, why do you think I won't give my phone number to you? It is because I too want the freedom that dating no strings gives me. Please do not be offended either when you ask me out for dinner, I say no because that then becomes a date. If I wanted a date I would join a dating site, actually I wouldn't because I do believe it or not have plenty of offers for 'dinner'.

I enjoy being single, I am single by choice not because I have been left on the shelf, at 34 with no kids in toe and having looked after my body I can assure you if I wanted a man in my life 24/7 I could have one. I speak with whomever I like, eat when I like, do what I like without having to explain my actions to anyone. I can even have sex on my own if I wanted to but I admit sex with a guy is far better than a piece of plastic. I have 3-4 sex buddies that I see on a regular basis, it means sex doesn't get boring and as each guy is different it is more of a case of "what do I feel like today". The guys I meet for no strings attached are so different to me in my ways and we could never live together it would be total destruction so NSA means we can enjoy great sex and get on with our lives in a selfish manner as we do not have to share anything or consider anyone.